well,.... i can honestly say that learning is a huge part of life. there are many ups and down that come your way and whether you're ready for it or not, it WILL hit you. last night i learned a lot of stuff about myself, but more so, i learned a lot of more stuff about others. i guess my advise is don't judge people or the situation too quickly. you might expect one thing and before you know it, it will turn around and shit on you. however don't remain mad at hold a grudge. it won't get you anywhere in life. brush off your pants, clean your shoes, stand up tall and just be happy for what you have.
the truth is i supposed, never take your life for granted because bullshit always comes your way. i had to learn things the hard way, but in reality i still learned it. i was caught up in a drama that i did not really care to be in, but it was my choice to stay in it. before you take steps in life, be careful of where you are stepping because you never know which grounds are solid nor which will let you take a fall. in the end..when life throws you apples, make a pie out of it. don't regret nothing, yet on the same side, don't be afriad to stand up for what you believe in because that is the ONLY way that you will find out the truth. raverboy