So whats the best way to breakup with someone. I've only broken up with a girl once, and that was like 10 years ago. And honestly, I did that over email. I was young and stupid, what can I say? Since then, my relationships have been long term in nature and I've always been the dumpee. I've been seeing this woman for a few months now. Shes a great girl, but I just dont feel this is going to work out long term. I feel its best to end it now, she's already getting pretty attached to me. So what do I do?
Do I go hang out some evening and then before I leave drop the bomb?
Do I call and say we need to talk and that I am going to come over?
Do I just drop by her place with the bad news?
Whats the most gentle way to handle this type of thing?