How do you refuse a date without sounding clichéd?

Now that I have broken up with my ex I’ve had a couple of calls for dates the last few days…I guess people thought giving me a month was enough time….i’ve blocked him out of my mind completely now from keeping busy…. I refused the dates but felt really awkward because I don’t want them to hate me if ya know what I mean…..before I went out with my ex I used to just ignore the question and divert the conversation to something else so that they wouldn’t ask again…I realise how horrible it is to get a knock back….i’ve had a few myself….its a panic moment searching for the right words to say and I always come out with cliché’s. Basically the truth is I’m just not attracted to them…not that everything is about looks…..i’m more attracted to funny guys anyway…what do you say? uuuggghhh

I just say, "I'm flattered, but I think we're better off as friends."

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Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I just say, "I'm flattered, but I think we're better off as friends."

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i'm flattered' ye i never thought of that....ye that should make them feel kinda better about it...simple! ive been umming an awwing and fumbling and i know they can tell.....my face is practically beetroot coming off the phone....thats straightforward thanks a million

Tell them you've decided to become a lesbian. I bet they've never heard that before.

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Originally Posted by shh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Tell them you've decided to become a lesbian. I bet they've never heard that before.

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lol!.......

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Originally Posted by shh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Tell them you've decided to become a lesbian. I bet they've never heard that before.

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Some guys would try even harder.

The idea of turning a lesbian straight or bi.

Tell them, "It's Not You, It's Me"