my perfect wife

Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years she loves and respects me but she does not have some qualities i'd like my wife to have

here a list tell me if im wrong

She has listens to everything i say
Apologises backs down even when its my fault
Would do anything i ask even if its wrong or would atleast give it ago
Loves me
Submissive and fearful but not in a way like fearful of violence but fearful of upsetting me for the love she's got for me
Low maintenance
Relies on me
Does not have over 5 friends (friends = people you spend more than 1 hour per week)
Does not like to hang out with friends in Starbucks and caffee holywood trying to recreate Friends
Realist does not follow movies/romantic/sexy bullshit from tv

You think you would like a woman to have those things but you won't. You won't respect her...you only think you would.

Hmm good luck with that...

Buy a blowup doll. You won't ever find all that in one woman, and if you did, she'd be brain dead.

haha!!!

Are you serious?

Only stupid girls would do what you wanted to do!

Find that girl in Africa!

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Originally Posted by kaiser27 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She has listens to everything i say
Apologises backs down even when its my fault
Would do anything i ask even if its wrong or would atleast give it ago
Loves me
Submissive and fearful but not in a way like fearful of violence but fearful of upsetting me for the love she's got for me
Low maintenance
Relies on me
Does not have over 5 friends (friends = people you spend more than 1 hour per week)
Does not like to hang out with friends in Starbucks and caffee holywood trying to recreate Friends
Realist does not follow movies/romantic/sexy bullshit from tv

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Is that a list of qualities you look for in a wife or a list of qualities you dislike in your woman?


It's hard to tell

And I thought I was picky.

Lol...I wont do what Im sure alot of you expect me to do...But anyway OP, you're basically saying you want a codependent chick who depends on you for happiness and acceptance. It's so sad that your self esteem is so low that it takes a woman lowering her standards to make you feel good about yourself. That's not something to be proud of dude, seriously. You're a loser.

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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Is that a list of qualities you look for in a wife or a list of qualities you dislike in your woman?


It's hard to tell

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I reread the OP. You're right. Let's hope those are qualities he dislike in his woman.

Mishanya and lesa, its actually not hard to tell.

1.) "Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years she loves and respects me but she does not have some qualities i'd like my wife to have

here a list tell me if im wrong"... he is listing the qualities he would like his wife to have.

2.) If you read the list, how can someone want a "perfect wife" to not love them?

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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

2.) If you read the list, how can someone want a "perfect wife" to not love them?

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You're right. I was really hoping that was his 'dislike' list but "loves me" proves this IS his 'like' list. How disconcerting. :P

I wonder what is the OP's country/religion?

Man, my list is so much shorter :(

My list of the perfect girl

1.) I have to love her
2.) She has to love me

She's changed the way I think about a lot of things. Even love. It's so spontaneous that I have to trust her in order to get through each day. She is understanding and supportive of my desires, and she is jealous of the air I breath. She is the sudden inspiration in me to wake up early and stay up late, trying to find meaning in all the little things in life, that I have ignored previously.

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Originally Posted by anachronistic [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She's changed the way I think about a lot of things. Even love. It's so spontaneous that I have to trust her in order to get through each day. She is understanding and supportive of my desires, and she is jealous of the air I breath. She is the sudden inspiration in me to wake up early and stay up late, trying to find meaning in all the little things in life, that I have ignored previously.

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wow that is incredible....