The title is rather vague. But there are some times when I say things in the heat of the moment that I would like to take back. They aren't mean or anything but I feel bad about saying them. Like for instance my gf's birthday is tomorrow and she is with her dad and grandma in Airzona cause her grandfather died recently. Well up until this morning she said she was coming home tonight so that we can be together for her birthday.
But tonight she told me she isn't coming home until Friday morning early. I was fairly sad and bummed about it because I had made plans for her birthday but I told her that since she isn't coming home until friday morning that the plans I had for thursday, for her birthday, were ruined.
Now I feel sad because I dont get to spend or see my girlfriend on her birthday, I feel guilty for feeling that way because she is spending time with her family, and I feel bad for saying that the plans were ruined.
So am I a horrible jerk for saying that? My gf said she wasn't mad but my 6th sense is telling me that she is just saying that, that she is mad.