Please help... I need ideas
Okay, question.... Let me tell you what happened first. I looked at an IM that my BF wrote because I was curious about what he was thinking. I know that he would never cheat so that's not why or anything. It was because he had changed how he was, so quickly and I was confused. I felt terrible after looking at it, and eventually told him. He's of couse angry with me because I violated his privacy. He did, however send some of my private IM's to the person to apparently get an opinion. But all the IM's showed was that I was possibly jealous of her, which is very embarrasing to me and I think is violating my personal stuff too. Do you agree? Or am I wrong? He doesn't want to be together anymore because of it. He's also being pessimistic and saying that it would have happened to break up anyway. I don't understand why though... We never really faught...We would talk it out. We were crazy for eachother the first 2 monthsish, but then he slowly started to push away it seemed. It was like he was there, but didn't really care to be. Why would he have just pushed away? GOD..HELP!