How do You Create Romance?
I know that men and women define "romance" differently. For instance, my understanding is that guys think sex IS romantic, and that women prefer/desire/need romance to want to have sex.
I'd like to bridge that translation gap. I'm working on a new romance book that actually has some practical daily step-by-step ways to create romance. I started writing it for guys who may not know really what to do, where to start or who may be too busy to be creative, yet want to do stuff that will make their sweetheart melt.
I'm looking for advice (both male & female) on what you find "romantic" and what your biggest challenge is in having that experience. Time? Togetherness? Different interests? Kids? You've spent too much time being angry or upset with each other to care about being romantic and connecting? What?
I actually believe in the law of reciprocity. If you're willing to offer your advice, I'd like to offer you a free copy of the book when it's done. I want to be respectful of the forum guidelines, so just let me know in your post if you want it. Regardless, ANY input would be great! Thanks!