Technically speaking: was this wrong, or did I have a right regardless?
Ok so I think I'd rather be honest and say this is about me.
So I dated this guy before my ex(who I found out after dating him was my ex's friend which sucked) and he turned out to be such a ****ing asshole. He always put me down in front his friends to make himself look good. So after I decided not to put up with it anymore I broke up with him. I easily got over him cuz I seriously didnt love him. So about a month and a half down the road, my ex and I started dating(he asked me to be his girlfriend on his graduation night when we went out). So the other guy found out we were dating, and he suddenly wanted to try to make things better. He was constantly down my neck asking me to go back with him and telling me how sorry he was for treating me so badly. I kept telling him I moved on and i dont want to be with him anymore I already found someone who respected me. He even went to an all time low of plain out asking Clinton if he would break up with me so he could have a chance. I thought that was mega insane. So Clinton and I had gotten in an arguement about how this other guy was interferring with our relationship and it was pissing him off. I understood completely, but then I had heard some stuff from the other guy that he said that Clinton had said(he sent convos). When Clinton was confronted, he didnt have anything to say, so I was pretty much pissed. So we broke up and in all honesty I swore we would never get back together. So the same night we broke up, the other guy had messaged me and asked me what was wrong, and I told him me and Clinton had broken up. So he took this as an opportunity to start trying to talk to me, and I told him it'd just be a rebound thing and he said we'll work things out. I started thinking about all the shit he did just to try and get back with me and said ok I'll probably give him another chance(One of my problems is I always give chances even to people who dont deserve it). We had a very long conversation about it. So I was ready to give in and said well whatever. The next day, he asked me to send him some pictures(he had went away to the states at the time). So I had on a t-shirt and a regular underwear(nothing sexy) and posed and sent him some pics and sent him a message saying "Dont forget what you have home". Then shockingly, Clinton came that night and apologized about how things happened and he said he wanted to be with me. Seeing as I still had feelings for him I said ok we can. I had told the other guy I was working things out with Clinton instead(remember I had already told him in advance he'd just be a rebound).
Ok, now later down the road in December, Clinton and I had exchanged email passwords(bad idea). We ended up arguing about shit in emails. So one morning I woke up to a conversation with Clinton cussin the hell outta me. He said he saw the pics and saw who they were sent to. He was mega pissed and stopped talking to me. I was apologetic to him for the past at lest 7 months(he held this grudge against me for an extremely long time, I wouldnt be surprised if he still is holding on to it). But I talked to a couple people, and only about two people thought I was wrong.
Now this is what Im trying to get. Technically speaking, I did nothing wrong. Why? Because we were no longer together. There is no time frame between when you can move on or not. I agree completely that the timing was very ****ed up, but my intentions was never to hurt Clinton. Clinton made me feel guilty about it for soooo long and I always had been apologizing to him like I was sooo wrong. The way he started acting, you could've sworn I ****ed someone else, which I never have done. I talked to my 34 year old brother about it when I went to Georgia this year cuz I wanted to hear it from an older person's perspective. He told me I was not wrong because I was not with him. End of story.
So what are you guys opinions? Aside from the timing being ****ed up, was I wrong? Do you think I deserved to be treated differently?
