Are Females Players?

Im in the Navy, Im home rarely, and I travel constantly....Right now im in Europe for a two year stint. I came home for leave for 2 weeks, and met a nice girl at my sisters place of employment. She is an extremely attractive spanish brazilian woman, who I figure would have no problem getting a guy even when she has 3 children. After only talking to her for about an hour, and telling her I wanted to cook her dinner I left.

Now its been 4 weeks since Ive been home, and my sister calls me up telling me she wants to know my phone number, address, and wants to know how im doing. I comply, and talk to her briefly. I get her address, and she tells me she is looking forward to me coming back and cooking a meal for her.

My sister over-heard yesterday her talking to a fellow employee about a Marine boyfriend that shes been dating for suposedly 3 months now....I ask the chick about this and she neither confirms or denies, but rather tells me she lives alone with her children, and wants me to cook her dinner....

which leads me to my question....are females players? and if so, is this one a player?

In a word YES. SOME girls are big time players.

Sounds as IF the one your talking about is one as well.

Well, sometimes when they see an attraction, they'll approach
that person, because they fell something for them.
If a girl does it, she either likes the attention, or wants
to see If something will develop with that person.

P.S. It seems like she is coming onto you,
only you will decide what you think about it.

she has no reason to be exclusive to anyone but her children, i'm sure she puts her kids first and guys come second. for someone like her it's up to the guys to prove their worth. You might call it playing but i call it being sensible.

Would you even care if you got a couple of booty calls out of her?

She is looking for immediate satisfaction and no commitment. I would not call this being a player, but a smart independent woman and mother who puts her kids first. But the question to ask yourself, can you handle that?

bluntly put, that's like asking if there are mean people in this world... of course there are.

secondly, she's probably on the hunch that you'll never find out about the truth because you're only here for two weeks. my advice is that she only wants your dick so you should just stick it in her and get yours... honestly speaking, if she wanted more, then she'd try harder in winning your heart rather than meeting other people.

raverboy

I think she is a 100% player. Hooking many guys and demand something. As what she said she wants you to cook her dinner, WTF! What kind of girl is she?

Play with her too!

Three kids and no daddies: why being a female player ain't as good as it sounds.

You also mention she's Brazilian (which means she speaks Portugese, I think). Anyway, she's latina which could mean she's simply more flirty than you are used to. Perhaps you are reading into her more than you should.

But, of course, there are certainly females who play. Whyever not?

Just got back from work, checking my phone at home I had 3 texts from her....


Text 1 10:33am : "Marine and I dont talk anymore"

Text 2 10:35am : "It be nice to have u as friend, so if u want a new friend let me know"

text 3: 2:31pm : "Oh and marine never my boyfriend we never got that far"


im assuming shes changed her mind.

not all but some this girl played me like no bodies business and i been played a lot so its all a matter of making the decision for yourself whether or not the girl is a player so you just got to watch out for the players