So, there's this girl that I've hung out with once before at a party and we talked for a few minutes and that was it. Last night, she had a pregame party at her house before we went out to a costume party at a club. We were all taking tequila shots and then we left for the club.
We got there and she and I danced to a song on the stage with our whole group. Then about an hour later (I was dancing with other girls), she comes up to me and puts her head in my chest and tells me that she feels sick. So I put my arms around her. Neither one of us drove, so I got some of her friends and we left and went back to her house.
She got sick on the way back and we had to stop on the side of the freeway for her to get rid of the tequila from her system. I held her hair back for her while she did this.
We got back in the car and I was in the middle, she was on my right. I have pretty broad shoulders and we were in the back of a small SUV. So I put one of my arms behind the seat to have more room. She grabbed my other hand and held it really tight to her stomach with both of her hands. So, I put my arm around her shoulders and she laid her head on my shoulder. Basically, I kept her from moving all over while we were driving. I'm not gonna lie, she is an absolutely gorgeous girl and I enjoyed being there for her. I just wish the circumstances would have been different.
So I helped her into the house and her friends went with her upstairs. They came back down and the other 2 girls, the other guy, and me all left. She gave me a big hug and I figured that was that. So, I got on facebook later today and she had friended me. I accepted. And then she immediately tagged a picture with us in it. So we started talking on facebook chat. She thanked me like 3-4 times for being there for her and taking care of her and I reassured her that it wasn't an issue and told her she was welcome. We kept talking for about 30 minutes. But then I had to go, because I have homework to do.
So here's the thing, I like her. She's a fun girl, great sense of humor, and quite attractive. I want to see where things can go with her. So far, I've just been playing it cool. What I want to know is, how is the best way to handle this? I've had problems before with staying too low-key and getting stuck in the friend zone. And I've been on the other side of the spectrum, where I'm too honest too fast and it ends up not working out.
So, how should I go about this? I'm just looking for someone who's fun to be around and I can have a good time with. I'm not looking for something serious or a strong connection or something like that. So what's my best approach ladies and gents? I appreciate the help and thanks in advance.
Sorry, for the longish post.
