Do I stand a chance at all? Confused as!
I need some help/tips on a relationship I have with someone. Here goes the story;
I met this guy at the start of the year at the garage. He asked for my number, I gave it to him but never showed an interest in him. We caught up a few times.. I just caught up with him out of boredom..
Anyway he started liking me, I still wasn't interested, I told him I didn't want a boyfriend.. Secretly I was after someone else. We continued to hang out and he serviced my car.. I fell for him more because of the things he'd go out of his way for me and do. He always told me he could see me as his girlfriend. Anyway over time we started hooking up/making out. I liked him more and more..
We took things slowly, then after a few months into it I decided to ask him what was going on between us to which he replied, nothing he wasn't ready for a girlfriend. I accepted that because I believe that you can't push someone into something they don't want. You can't force feelings upon anyone. He messaged me the next day saying that he was sorry and he still wants to see me, just doesn't want to lead me on. So we continued seeing each other.
The other day we were together, I asked again what was happening because it had been a few months since the last time I asked. So we had a talk and he told me he still doesn't want a girlfriend. he said I would be the best gf and that I am a really good girl, but he is not ready. I accepted it, I told him I really liked him but I said to him maybe we should hang out less. He said that I was being silly.
Anyway since we talked he has been really nice to me saying that he wants to see me again.. And asking if I was thinking about him. He also told me that he was still waiting for the day that I ask him over my house. (I have been to his house often and also met his parents) I am getting confused signals from him. He says he doesn't want a gf but always calls and messages me. He respects me a lot. I really like him but don't know what will happen.. He is 25 and I'm 22. You'd at least think he would be more mature.. I feel like he is playing games and screwing with my head. Maybe he doesn't know what he wants? Help people!
Thank you.
