Questions about the ' Shy Guys '

There's this boy I like and he's the kind that's shy and not very social. But mysterious, nice, mature, romantic.

I never talked to him in reallife. But I have on MSN. But I don't anymore.

I'm shy and not social myself, so I really don't want to make the first move.

What do these type of guys like in a girl? How do I get them?

Also, he likes a girl older then him. So. Anyway I can kind of get his attention towards me and. Is there anyway I can use body language? I really don't know that is but, if it works then great.

- iLoveHimx3

I used to be really shy and turned that around.

The thing is, if you're both shy...one of you will HAVE to make the first move and it'll be really tough, but to come out of your shell...initiative will have to be taken.

First things first...does he even have a passing interest in you?

Since his attention is guided towards this older potential, you must let him know how you feel and let him decide. Since he is shy and his attention is towards someone else you are at a moment where chances are low for him to come to you.

Feel free and understand that nothing you do matters in the end. His opinion of you matters little if he rejects you and it never thus mattered in the first place. If he accepts, enjoy the experience for what it is.

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Originally Posted by damn2008 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I used to be really shy and turned that around.

The thing is, if you're both shy...one of you will HAVE to make the first move and it'll be really tough, but to come out of your shell...initiative will have to be taken.

He looks at me sometimes. The longest we started into each others eyes was like... 3 seconds. But. I'm afraid of looking bad infront of him. And if I do the thing where I bump into him and say sorry... And all that. I think he'll think im clumsy.

First things first...does he even have a passing interest in you?

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Well... He doesn't know me. I just started in his school 3 months ago.
When I pass by him, it doesn't feel good. It's just like a weird vibe.
I'm to shy to even say hi to him... And I'm afraid he'll think I'm weird.

just start finding ways to hang out with him... from being not sociable, start knowing how to start a conversation..

and also, start being a show off with your beauty,, have a make over and dress up a little, or put a make up if you don't really wear them..

shy types of guys admire a lot of those who are better than them.. since he is nice mature and romantic, you just have to find ways for him to know you are mature your self..

stop being a shy type yourself, and start being more confident