One-sided love affair. What should I do??
I fell passionately in love with one of my group mates at the university. We've studied together for 2 years, but the feeling came just recently. I tried to make a date for 3 times, but each time she postponed it, never saying no to me. She said she was working, so she couldn't come. We talk a lot, exchange messages and she's friendly to me. Recently she told me that she's depressed and is "searching for herself". She said that it's not only about the classes and studying. And she looks really upset when I see her, I try to support her, to find out what's wrong with her, but she won't tell. And she told me one day that she missed the classes because she was busy making arrangements about a 'costume' that was sewn for her. I don't know what costume she was talking about, she didn't tell me that either. Strange, it must have been for some special purpose, because otherwise she would have bought it in a store. What should I do, what does it all mean? Don't you think she might be looking for a sponsor, for a rich guy to give her money? This explains why she's in need for money now as she's working, that explains why she's upset (while the previous sponsor left her) and partly explains why she needs thenew 'costume'. What do u think? Or am I just going nuts? Plz help me, I love her so much, that I even my dreams at night are about her.
