Asked her out before Vacation, She said Yes...now what?
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all.
While I'm on a small break before the holiday stuff for the day I figured I'd get some opinions.
I had posted previously about how I was attracted to a co-worker of mine for a long time and I finally asked her out (I told her I'd like to take her out to dinner instead of pulling the full-blown "I've liked you for a long time") and she said "Yes". The issue was that I did it the day before I was taking a long vacation (this happened in early Dec.) and she knew about it all and such.
I'm sure she was aware I liked her as I was pretty obvious, perhaps she was waiting for me to ask and I asked before vacation so I could give her "space" in case it became awkward to her.
I just recently returned from my vacation and the next monday (dec. 29) we will both return to work. My question now is: NOW WHAT? I really doubt she will bring up the dinner to me first (from how I know her I just doubt she will) so I will have to "remind" her. Plus since I asked her out I'm sure she'll see it that I follow up.
I've asked a few friend's opinions and they've recommended IMing (we have Instant messanger at work for work purposes) her and phrasing it properly so she gets time to think. Also not to bring it up for a day or two of work as well.
Opinions would be appreciated!