How do i make the first contact?
Hi, this is my first post. I know it is a little long, but please read it all the way through. I would really appreciate if you do so, since this is a very important matter to me.
To make some things clear first:
I'm 17 years old, live in Denmark and i am in what is called 2.G in a Gymnasium (i have NO idea what that equals in the American school system :-S )
A normal gymnasium in DK consist of the classes for each year: 1.G, 2.G and 3.G.
Each of these are divided into 6 classes with the letters from A to F
I'm in 2.C - The "nerd-class" which mostly focuses on mathematics, chemistry and physics or biology.
In the first week of a new school-year there are some different activities to make the new 1.G's feel welcome. One of them is "Les Lanciers" (check wikipedia)
Here's where my problem starts.
When i started in 1.G and danced "Les Lanciers" i didn't have a partner of the female sex which was required to do this dance, so i was teamed up with a girl who didn't have a partner either.
Aside from looking like an idiot as everyone else around me, I screwed up in another way too.
Having little experience with both the female sex and dancing, a thousand things was running through my mind while i tried not to screw up this very difficult dance, and therefore even though I felt some attraction to my dancing partner, I never even thought about actually talking with her in the breaks between the dances or such, to get to know her better. (Also I was a pretty shy person at that time, but I have improved a little on that area since then :-) )
Now as I wrote earlier, I'm halfway through 2.G and as you might guess, I still haven't made a move.
This is quite a dilemma for me now, 1½ year later, because the only thing I know about her is her name and that she goes in 2.A now (which focuses on drama, english and music) and as time has passed, I am still felling attracted to her (if not more) but now I don't know how make contact. She probably doesn't even remember me :-(
If I could just make contact with her somehow so that we could get to know each others I'm sure I would be able to handle the rest, but i just don't know how to do that. Also, because I only know how she looks, I would really like to know how her personality is, so that I'm sure that it isn't just her appearance that attracts me.
I tried talking with one of my best friends in my class, as he seemed to be pretty experienced at relationships judging by the enormous amount of girls he knows on the gymnasium (almost every time I have a talk with him outside the class, he runs off after 2 minutes or so to say hello to some girl he knows)
He didn't have many ideas and what he actually had to offer didn't make sense to me (apparently he has a rather original method of making contact with girls/women, but it seems to work like a charm for him X-D )
I'm hoping some of you more experience people here might be of some help for me.
Especially the girls/women. Imagine if a guy you hardly know was to make contact with you, what would be the most comfortable way for that to happen to you?
I mean, if some random guy suddenly says hello to you or says your name, you might get a little uncomfortable, right?
(btw, that was one of the things my friend suggested me to do X-D )
This may all sound pretty weird to you, but being danish I'm not used to express things like this in English so things may come out the wrong way. Please ask if something I wrote looks a bit weird written. Also, I hope you didn't fall asleep while reading all of this X-D
