We hooked up and I am falling for him
Hey Guys,
so I recently hooked up with a guy friend and we went pretty far. We almost had sex, but he didn't have condoms on him and I had my period. So we kinda decided to just lie naked and do stuff. I kinda implied to him that I wanted to go further next time, i.e. have sex, and he seemed to want to too.
However, recently in our text messages he was concerned that maybe I was rushing things, especially because he was moving really far away soon. He was concerned especially because I haven't had sex before. But the weird thing is he's always acted very sexually towards me, like talking about perverted stuff and hinting at his sexual attraction to me, so I just don't get it.
To be honest, we don't know each other too well, and before this hook up, we didn't really treat each other that well, like it was more of a convenience kind of relationship, where we'd hangout occasionally, and I didn't treat him that well, ie I didn't always answer his texts asking me to hangout with him...
I guess my question is, is he really concerned that I may be rushing things for myself, or do you think maybe he's also concerned about what this might mean for him and if so, what?
And also, I have been text messaging him more often, do you think this will freak him out and do you think if I act more interested, he will freak out? I told him about how he was the right one and this was the right time when he asked me if I was sure that I wanted to sleep with him.
Maybe I should just give him more space?
Thank you for reading this.
I am also starting to like him a lot, perhaps it's just lust, but I'm more attached to him now than before....
