Originally Posted by
Sunwontshine
[Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Today i basically told my girlfriend i wanted to step back, take time and look at our relationship and everything else in life, in perspective. She was crying, i was crying, i just cant shake the feeling that the relationship was on the train downhill, and ive stayed on board with relationships like this before and its ended worse up down the road and ended nasty. Basically i feel like a f*#&ing monster seeing her cry over, what feels like, my selfishness. Problem is she just wont talk to me if something bothers her, she doesnt want to argue or anything, not that it would turn into that but she wont bring up anything thats bothering her period, and then it all boils over, she wants to fix it and i feel like a bastard coz im not sure if i do? any advice? am i selfish?