don't think i've had a more honest cry for help. i thought he had moved on

regardless of the situation, yesterday i finally came to terms with not my feelings but realizing that i would have to get over myself and that my ex has moved on, very quickly at that.
then tonight while i'm trying to just veg out vs. my usual party scene which i feel somewhat cut out of these days, i recieve a txt msg asking "what the deal is" to which i replied "trying to sleep" and then recieved a "just finished work, it's good your trying to sleep" and i replied "ya, i guess? i'll talk to you later, you should try to get some sleep at some point too"
i did not recieve a reply and have not been able to sleep and feel nauseous and feel he just may have had a couple to drink so thought he'd say hi, was perhaps feeling some guilt about i don't even know what he could be feeling that about.
how should i react to this?
if casually was i casual enough in my reply?

I think you should block his messages. He was probably drunk-messaging. Don't try to read more into it, my friend.

Meh, delete the messages unread. He doesn't deserve to have that much affect upon your emotional state anymore.

I'd react by ignoring (or preferably blocking) all future messages from him tbh. He's not worth feeling sick over and being unable to sleep, and if his texts do that to you, ignorance is the best policy IMO. x

Delete the message and delete the number. Not having that name pop up on your phone when trouble comes knocking makes it easier to take the "F off" attitude.

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my ex has moved on, very quickly at that.

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May I ask how quickly?

like it's suspected he may have had a date 3 days after our parting? these are things i know because my friends ran into him but they don't have any hard proof except that they thought it looked like one. otherwise, i blew that thought that he was seeing anyone off because he took me home the wknd after that, just to hang at that, but my facebook creepy girlfriend tells me that some chick is in love with him all over that awful networking cite. i don't know if he's moved on but i ran into him last weekend and he was an asshole asking me why i gave my friend his email address to talk about some housing business, business which he would have an interest in, and then starts texting me all of a sudden after that scene.
i can't delete him from my phone due to work arrangements btw.
so is what i text back to him not appropriate telling him i'd talk to him later? did i sound to enthused about his texting me?
i won't see him for a couple of weeks then i'm going to run into him at a party. i don't plan on having contact with him before that.
why would he even text me though? he dumped me and i made it seem cool!