Physical Compatibility—How Important?

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31-01-09, 01:35 PM
The Wanderer

Physical Compatibility—How Important?

Physical Compatibility—How Important?

She is a stunning 5’8 blonde hair, blue-eyed young woman. The
young man is handsome, 6’3 dark-haired, brown-eyed. They
have much in common; however, his complaint is that he is
not physically attracted to her. His ideal is a lovely dark-haired
woman with brown eyes.

Can They Be Happy?

Although, they share the same values, political views and
religious beliefs, he is troubled by the fact that he catches
himself gazing at the brunettes when he is with her or without
her. “I really like *Lori and we are a good fit, but I can’t take
my eyes off of the brunettes.”

Discuss …

The Wanderer

*Lori is not her real name.
31-01-09, 01:53 PM
Lite

Why do I feel like I'm on that damn show...

Random topic... Discuss!
31-01-09, 02:00 PM
vashti

Why are your posts being written in that format? Are you writing a book, or something? Because if you are, I want my share of the $$.
31-01-09, 02:04 PM
The Wanderer

I write in that format because I am comfortable
with it and in addition, it makes it easier on the
reader and is more pleasing to the eye.

The Wanderer
31-01-09, 02:07 PM
vashti

What's with the hypothetical scenarios, then?
31-01-09, 02:14 PM
Gribble

It isn't the format, Wanderer, it's the questions.

Anyway, I believe physical compatibility isn't nearly as important as the rest. Looks are temporary and even if they weren't you'd get tired of them after a while. If you want a relationship to last you've got to find someone you can live with.

Plus it's a damn shame so many people have narrowly defined requirements. Admittedly I have a special place for dark hair and dark skin, but I love women of all kinds.
31-01-09, 02:19 PM
The Wanderer

Quote:

Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What's with the hypothetical scenarios, then?

The scenarios are real, however, for the sake of protecting
individuals and making small changes that do not affect the
content I find it better.

In addition, it let's individuals escape embarrassment, ridicule
and humiliation.

The Wanderer
31-01-09, 02:34 PM
Lite

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Wanderer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The scenarios are real, however, for the sake of protecting
individuals and making small changes that do not affect the
content I find it better.

In addition, it let's individuals escape embarrassment, ridicule
and humiliation.

The Wanderer

As opposed to us merely assuming that one of the individuals is you, and that you're being pathetic in your attempt to avoid embarrassment, ridicule, and humiliation by attempting some sort of faux mysteriousness?
31-01-09, 02:37 PM
The Wanderer

Quote:

Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What's with the hypothetical scenarios, then?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lite [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

As opposed to us merely assuming that one of the individuals is you, and that you're being pathetic in your attempt to avoid embarrassment, ridicule, and humiliation by attempting some sort of faux mysteriousness?

Okay, you got me! (LOL) :lol:

Give me a break, I just started posting
on this board. I will learn.

The Wanderer
31-01-09, 02:41 PM
Gribble

Well, if that's the case, and if you're a young guy as I'm assuming, I think you should pursue the brunettes.

You have plenty of time to find a woman to marry. Focus on finding chicks to have fun with. Relationships are finite and mostly fun if you don't take them too seriously.
31-01-09, 04:50 PM
Mish

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Wanderer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Physical Compatibility—How Important?

Well, look at it this way

If the train doesn't fit into the tunnel, then that's pretty much the end to everything.
31-01-09, 10:24 PM
richeanne

ok put it this way.

so u can keep banging that brunette but that's the only time you'll enjoy your relationship.

do u consider that compatible enough.
01-02-09, 12:57 AM
Gigabitch

My husband isn't my type. Not at all. I wouldn't trade him, though. Not for anyone.
01-02-09, 05:55 AM
Mish

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

My husband isn't my type. Not at all.

He is your "physical compatibility" type though ;)