Exta Jelous

:upset:Hi every one im new so let me jus tell you a lil bit about myself well first of all im sixteen and have a huge huge jelousy problelm ive had past experiances with boyfriends who would always compare me to ex girlfriends and i always would feel like i was ugly and i was going to eventually get cheated on well that was in the past now i am married and i hate when my husband waches movies with me with good looking girls with big boobs and what not i feel reeally angry and extremly jelous or also when we go out to the mall and girls pass by in my head i beleive the he imagines doing things with them if you know what i mean so thats why we always leave from the stores mad with eachothe please help me with my jelousy problem please give me advice

You're sixteen and You're married? Wow... Quick life:)

16 and married?

Obviously you're not mentally or emotionally mature enough to be married.

Where are you from?

How old is your husband?

What do you both do for a living?

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Originally Posted by candygurl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

:upset:Hi every one im new so let me jus tell you a lil bit about myself well first of all im sixteen and have a huge huge jelousy problelm ive had past experiances with boyfriends who would always compare me to ex girlfriends and i always would feel like i was ugly and i was going to eventually get cheated on well that was in the past now i am married and i hate when my husband waches movies with me with good looking girls with big boobs and what not i feel reeally angry and extremly jelous or also when we go out to the mall and girls pass by in my head i beleive the he imagines doing things with them if you know what i mean so thats why we always leave from the stores mad with eachothe please help me with my jelousy problem please give me advice

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It sounds like you are feeling insecure about yourself. In your head you are finding enemies in another women and because of this insecurity you allow them to win over you. The answer is to become more confident in yourself and value yourself more. I think it's obvious that if your husband liked other girls more than you then he wouldn't have married you. Don't give him reasons to divorce you by finding yourself less valuable or attractive than those other random stranger women.

candygurl i think you are too imatured to marry. well if you have married then be strong. and believe in urself and engage yourself in doing something for your career developement. idle mind is devil's workshop. so if you are keeping yorself busy these things will not come to your mind. try to love yourself and groom yourself physically and mentally as well as career wise. hope it will help you.
cheers.