Hello everyone, my name's Malcolm (Obviously by my username) and I have a little bit of a problem. So, let me start from the beginning, me and my tentative girlfriend met about 8 months ago, we talked a lot and were good friends for three until eventually it just became more than that, and we started dating. In the beginning we could not get enough of each other, for the first three months or so no matter what we were doing (this is all over the internet by the way) we would be with each other, so I mean like video games, or watching youtube, we would always be talking over the phone while we did stuff with each other. During this time fights would break out seldom, and when they did they were quickly resolved the next day and things went back to normal, but a thing that is different with me and her is that after a fight, I really want to resolve things and make sure everything is 100%, but she usually doesn't want to talk about it after a fight, and just be there with me and talk to me, which makes me feel better for the time being but the problem still remains. So, we went on like this, not talking after most fights and things just started to build up more and more and more, until eventually we were fighting weekly, semi-making up the next day. But about five weeks ago she just told me that she didn't want to fight so much anymore, and she broke it off, but that she still wanted to say "I love you" and she would still remain monogamous with me, so we were basically still in a relationship, she just didn't want to call it that (personally I thought it was just because of her pride). So this stayed the same for a while, and we didn't fight because I was gone on vacation for a week and a half, we just talked via text mostly, still saying I love you and still, well, in love. After that I came back and she just didn't treat me the same way, so I realized that she really did break it off, but I had no idea what to do, and she still loved me, so I assumed we'd just make up and get back to what it used to be, but things have just been getting worse, and now she's to the point where she really just doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me about anything serious, she still says I love you, and I still feel like she means it, but now she's doing things, hurtful things, like this week she stopped talking to me for a few days then acted like nothing happened (which is weird because we do literally talk every day, keeping in contact via text or phone all the time) and I just was wondering what to do, I know she still loves me, and I think our problem is we just need to resolve things that never got resolved, but I don't know how to approach her, anyways, thanks for taking the time to read this even if you don't have an answer for me!
