I'm too dependant on my boyfriend
Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now and I've recently realised that I'm very dependant on him.
I'm really in love with him and I love every moment that we spend together, but I've noticed that if he's not there I won't know what to do with myself. I really don't want this. I'd like to have a life of my own as well as a love life, but at the moment it seems as if my life is completely and utterly devoted to him.
I do make time to see my friends occasionally, but I'd like to have a proper social life or a hobby that I could do without him, to get away from him. My main hobby is currently playing tennis, but he plays tennis with me and if I went without him intentionally he would probably feel really bad and left out. I also love playing tennis with him - it's what got us together and I don't want to change the fact that it's a good hobby that we do together.
Can somebody give me any idea's on what to do without him and how to feel more independent? I'd like to be able to go a week without missing him as I think that occasionally, having a few days off seeing each other can be quite healthy.
Thanks.