How bad of an idea is this...?
Some of you have already heard my story, but to those that haven't, you don't need all the details right now, so let me sum things up... There's this girl that I've liked for a really long time, but we haven't seen each other in years, and for the last year, our only means of communication has been through MySpace. Things seemed to be going fine when we were first writing; she genuinely seemed to enjoy writing with me. I started getting kinda dopey with my messages, and her interest level started dying down. I got gutsy enough to ask her, in a light, casual way, about meeting up some time, and catching up in person. She never wrote me back... It was months before I dared writing her again.
Eventually, I got her writing to me again early this year, and I seemed to be back on track with her, but she started flaking out again. I decided not too long ago to write a big message, in which I acknowledged the feelings I had for her in the past (which she already knew of), touched on the fact that I was curious to see what, if anything, could still be between us, told her I was aware that I'd been kind of a dork online but that that was only because I'm bad at this whole online thing and that it makes things more complicated than they need to be, peppered in some humor to keep the tone good, and basically ended it by asking her about meeting up. So unlike when I asked her about meeting up six months ago, this time was more direct. It's been two weeks since I sent that message, and still no reply from her, however.
I know, that doesn't exactly seem like a good sign, and that I should just shrug this off and move on. But you don't really know how important this is to me, and how hard it is to just let this go. So it got in my head; what if I could turn her lack of response into a playful, flirtatious little game? Yanno, send a message that's something like this: "dodge all ya want, but I'm too persistent to give up that easy. ;) besides, you and I both know I'll probably just wait a few months and ask you again, anyway :p". So how bad of an idea would that be? I don't want to be that clingy creep that's constantly writing her, but this is the only possible way I can think of spinning things with her.
