the most miserable time of my entire life
Hello everyone,
The reason I decided to write here is because I want the guys to tell me what they think. Please. I and my bf have been together for 2 years. I am so attached to him and love him to death. He loves me too. The problem is that he is a free bird he doesn’t want to live in this cold city and he wants to travel before he gets old. I am 20 and he is 24. I adore him and love him like crazy I would do anything in this world to be with him and take a bullet for him. He is leaving in 1 month and I don’t think he is coming back eve though he told me that someday we will be together again. He says that I changed his life and I am one of the most wonderful things that happened to him but he needs to live a little bit. He is the only person that I rely on we laugh on the same jokes and we are so good together. I have one month left and I don’t know what to do. I am suffering and crying I just can’t take it anymore. I don’t know if I will see him again and that is making me nuts. Please someone tell me something why and what should I do. Please guys it is the most horrible time of my life since I was born. Help me!!!
You Can't Stop Anybody From Leaving...
Hello solferina,
My advice is to not stop him from enjoying the experiences of the distant lands!
Given today's technology, the two of you can always stay in touch. Instead of feeling miserable, just think of the more mature outlook and perspective that he will bring with him when he returns. If you are planning to settle down in marriage with him, then this will most certainly help!
Best,
R.