I feel like he isn't putting that much effort into our relationship?
Now, we all know that to make a relationship work, both sides have to equally contribute to the relationship.
Well...
My boyfriend of 6 months doesn't seem to be putting in as much effort into the relationship as i am.
First, I'll start off with this: my phone got stolen a few days ago, this is our only way of communication throughout the week since we can't see each other everyday, we are in sort of a semi-long distance relationship, he lives about 45 minutes away from me, we see each other usually once a week, but on a good week sometimes 2-3 times.
We call each other around 9:00 PM every night and talk for about an hour or so. Usually we would take turns on who would call who, but lately I've been noticing that he has been blowing me off. A week ago the moment he was about to call me he blew me off to talk to some other chick. The next day he lied to me about it, he told me he got tired and went to sleep, but then he admitted later that he did in fact blow me off to talk to that other chick. This is his common excuse (that he always falls asleep on me), it's an inconvenience to me because i expect a call everyday at 9:00 PM and i set aside time just to talk to him, but when he just keeps blowing me off like this, to talk to someone else or to accidentally fall asleep on me, it makes me angry because I sit there waiting for his call, but i never get anything. He can at least send me a quick text message that says he can't talk tonight or that he's too tired, or he can call me for 5 minutes and tell me he can't talk long. But instead he doesn't say anything, and i sit there staring at my phone waiting for his call that never comes.
So, back to the part where i mentioned my phone that got stolen: we usually text back and forth throughout the day to shoot messages such as "i love you" and "how are you doing" that sort of stuff, then at 9:00 we actually talk. But now since my cellphone got stolen, we can't text anymore throughout the day, and the only time i talk to him is at 9:00. He told me he would call me up after school for 10 minutes to see how I'm doing and again call at 9:00 to talk for an hour. But i get nothing! No call after school, no call at 9:00! and the thing i noticed is that he's been doing this a lot more lately. Why does he keep blowing me off? and keep telling me he'll do something but never does it?
Last week we had a long talk about our relationship, and he promised he would let me know if he couldn't talk and he would send me a message or something so i wouldn't have to stay up and wait for him for nothing. He solemnly promised he would change his ways for the better of our relationship and not make the same mistakes again, but! just a few days after he does the same old thing again! I don't know if i can trust what he says anymore! he doesn't keep his word! It doesn't look like he's putting much effort or trying hard to keep this relationship going. He showers me with compliments all the time, and says i always come first, and I'm always on his mind, well i think that's bullshit, I don't know if i can believe that because he's not keeping his word.
The question is: What should i do about this?
and if he keeps forgetting or purposely not calling, what should i do? I've already talked to him about it, but he's not doing anything to change what he's doing.
