Hi all,
I'm new here and hoping for some advice.
I dated a man for two years. For various reasons (some of which were very understandable), we broke up in January. The timing was bad; it was our two years to the day.
In this and other ways, just before and since our break-up, he's been very insensitive to me, my feelings, and my needs. Our relationship, while we were together, was wonderful, but through the end and since then things have gone between bad and terrible and back again.
Lately he's been hinting that he wants back into my life. I'm still not really over him, I think in part because the whole time between our breakup and now he's been telling me that I'm the love of his life, that he'll never get over me...he just can't be with me. He won't stop emailing, calling, "bumping into" me. Earlier this week he suggested that we might start seeing each other again, but have the diet version of our old relationship.
The entire time, he's gone from hot to cold, which has been really painful for me. I feel that anytime I show him any interest, he pulls back again, but then he won't just leave me alone and let me move on. As much as his offer tempts me, I feel like I've gotten through the worst part of our breakup and have started building a new life beyond it.
I guess I don't need advice. I do know what I should do. Any words of support or suggestions would be greatly appreciated, though!
