what's she thinking!?!?

when you(a woman)plan/ prepare to split up with someone and you feel months before you actually do it like you want to.you greive in this time alone ,by herself,to your bff girlfriend that has also known since the time you first told her and this is why when you finally tell your soon to be ex that your not in love with him anymore and/or tell him he is not the one,,,it is easy for you and seems like you were ready and prepared for this...(eyes squint)......
all the while months and months ago when you first started feeling this you didn't have enough heart or love for your man to come to him and have a heart to heart,,,sit down and work it out,,,,hell ,,even give him an ultimatum!!!!this after 4 years and living together for 3 ,,,,him raising her 2 boys for those 4 years emotionally/financually.

now after the split 3 months of doing the right things,(living together 1 of those months)trying desperately to win her love back,,,he pushes a little and she tells him as of right now there is no chance of getting back together!!!!!?

has he lost her forever!!?!?!?

is there really no chance!?!?!

is she the one he sets free and doesnt come back there for she never really was his?!?!?!is that what this is??

is he just blind !!!do not all those ^^^^ things tell him so!??!?!

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just trying to digest this:(