Women accept normal, caring, and ambitious men but it sounds like you have some classic signs that tells a woman to run and don't bother with you. Do you do any of the following at the beginning (first two to three conversations):
1. Say that you are unattractive? (Women don’t want to hear that. They want a confident man. Plus, they do have eyes so don’t bother explaining your looks.)
2. Complain about past relationships or the lack thereof? (Oh the torture! Can I go now?)
3. Complain about women in general? (Oh the torture! Can I go now?)
4. Hugging and kissing on the first date? (Oh the torture! Can I go now?)
5. Talk about what a “catch” you are but in a way that gives women the vibes that something is not right about you? You have to try too hard? [For example: I’m a good man. I like to take care of women. I don’t cheat. I give affection. I do this and that for women.] (Oh the torture! Can I go now?)
6. Say “I love you?” (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go.)
7. Explain to her that you don’t do sex on the first date or two? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go.)
8. Explain to her that there’s nothing wrong with sex on the first date or two because you are not the type to bounce? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go.)
9. Explain that you have money and show off your house, vehicle (s), investment portfolio (through pictures or visitation)? Hmmm, that may be good, ROFL, but then you scare her by giving her the vibes that she is definitely a part of your long term future without her proving herself as a great “candidate”. (How many other women have you “interviewed” for this position before me?)
10. Introduce her to your family? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go).
11. Try to put the moves on her? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go).
12. Ask about her sexual past? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go).
13. Tell her that you use protection because you don’t want children right now? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go).
14. Ask her for her phone number or ask her out on a date without getting to know her a little? Some women may naturally decline because it doesn’t feel natural for some women to simply say yes or give phone number to a complete stranger. (**Smiles**, huh…….I’m taken, sorry.)
15. Expect a relationship immediately? (WTF!!!!! Bye now, I got to go).
So you can be a good guy and still f*** up with a female. Talk to her and get to know her without doing ANY of the above. Keep us posted on the results. :D
