Read this to feel better about your own life
Hello, here is my story and I am in need of some desperate help! For the sake of the story, we will call the couple Sue and Jon. I am in love with Jon. Sue is a friend of a friend. Both are 23. I am 20.
So, long story short, I have fallen in love with an engaged guy who is going to get married in July of this year!! We met three months ago through a group of mutual friends. Sue was friends with one of my friends and brought her fiance, Jon, along that day. Jon and I both play tennis so I originally set up a time for both of us to meet because I thought he was so hot. Later that day, I texted him saying how it was the most incredible match I have ever played because we are at the exact same skill level. We talked via text all that day, and EVERY SINGLE DAY since then. Our relationship slowly moved off the tennis courts and moved to phone calls. Our relationship has moved very quickly and our similarities seem to be endless. Anyways, one month(ish) after knowing him, our relationship got physical and we had sex. This habit has not stopped in the past month. I had gotten really good at keeping our friendship seperate from our intimacy in my head until earlier this week. I can't do it anymore. We talked everyday all day, and have only not seen each other 5 days in three months! We at least stop and visit each other for a few minutes, and a lot of the time we hang out for 5-7 hours when Sue is at work. He has brought me dinner, we cook pancakes in the morning together, we watch movies, we run errands together, EVERYTHING.I realize that I should not have gotten involved to begin with, so all of you haters, I want to tell you I already have recognized I am a home-wrecker. My problem is now: Do I tell him how I really feel about him, that I have completely fallen for him? Whether or not he wants to admit he likes me, he must a little bit, right? This can't possibly be one-sided. Also, he is totally planning on going through with this marriage! How can he even be thinking about this?! Should I send an anymous letter to her saying that he cheated on her? I didn't originally want this to even be an option, but its not fair to her that he's not loyal.
