How do girls move on so fast from a long term relationship?????
I just needed to get this off my chest. Ive been dating my ex for 3 years, we talk about marriage all the time, she said she loved me with all of her heart and that we were meant to be, and it was all sincere..i was so madly in love with her
We got into an argument about her birthday, she was pissed for a while, we did no contact for almost 3 weeks.
She calls after the 3 weeks and tells me shes happier without talking to me, and that before when we had an argument she would never be able to sleep and would cry, and that we argue too much (what relationship doesnt have arguments??) but i know she is talking to someone else at the moment i have a friend tell me so...she has been talking to this guy during the time she said she needed "time" and they have been talking to each other while we were on good terms, but she said hes only a friend. She made such an effort to let me know shes not those type of people who cheat emotionally or physically but look what she goes and does...
How the hell can a girl say all those things and not mean it in the end? how can she throw away 3 years like that like its nothing and move on to someone else?? its like she has no regard for my feelings after 3 years of being together..
I mean yes we argue more than we liked to, but when we dont we are soooo happy...
She also used that line "its not you, its me