what's going on? need advice! (girlfriend acting weird)
Ok, so I'll try to keep this short. I've been together with my girlfriend for almost a year, and we've gotten along really well so far. The past few weeks, though, have been kind of weird.
She's been fairly distant from me, and while we normally have sex regularly, we haven't at all for the past two weeks. We've hung out plenty still, only with her family or other friends around - it seems like she's avoiding alone time with me.
She occasionally still talks to her ex-boyfriend every now and then. I know about that and am "okay" with it (it bothers me, but I don't want to be a jerk and tell her to not talk to him). I'm not typically insecure, but I am kind of about him. She last hooked up with him less than a week before we started dating (she broke up with him six months before that; they'd dated for like six months and hooked up randomly afterward). Before me, he was her longest relationship. This is kind of awkward, too, but she's mentioned a couple times that he had a huge penis.
Anyway, sometime in the last week I happened to look at her phone (I wasn't creeping - she got a text and was busy and asked me to read it to her) and saw that she had been texting her ex, and the texts were kind of flirty. They'd sent each other pictures of themselves - not nude or anything, though.
Anyway, here's my question: am I reading too much into this? I love her very much, and am usually not jealous or paranoid! Is this my imagination? Or is something going on?