Saw pictures of my girlfriend and her ex having sex (graphic). What should I do?
Hey all this is my first post.
The other day I was looking through the photos on my girlfriends computer (not really snooping as there is a folder labeled "photos" right on her desktop and there are pictures of us inside). Anyway I came across a folder that was labeled senior year which were pictures of her senior year of college (she graduated in 2007). I went inside as I know a lot of her friends from school and as I was looking through I found an unmarked folder. I went inside and to my surprise there were photos of her having sex with her ex (graphic ones).
So, here is my dilemma. I know I probably shouldnt have been looking in the first place, however, now that I did, I cant get the image out of my head. It affects immensely and to be honest affects the way I look at her. I'm not mad at her and I'm not judging her....... its just that I cant get the image out of my head. I mean id rather not even see my girlfriends exes let alone witness what I did. I've put the relationship on hold to see if I can get over it but I dont think I can. I mean from now on when we go to be intimate i am going to think about what I saw and its going to lead to disaster.
Sorry for the long post .......... Am I overreacting???? What would you do??