why?

the reason why I'm here is cos on my previous relationship I got my heart broken..like must of us.

and also like must of us I don;t seem to be able to move on..this time seem to be harder and I had love before is just this time actually is taking a lot of my energy and "i refuse to to spare more of it thinking about this guy, or about this so called relationship

I read a couple of posts before I decide to join and here i am ...trying to move on

Why it's hard to move on? I guess we lose a bit of ourselves after the break up and we need to get that part of our selves back. It's a healthy experience. Give it more time and little by little you will move on.