no passion.. at all...

things between me and my wife are ... wrong
i dunno why but i have very little desire to have sex with her. i think it may have to do with the fact that when ever shes in the mood(which is often) she tends to just start grabbing at me and i dont really get turned on ;\ lol i know this seems like something that a chick would say and i should be all for it but i just dont feel that way... its not that im not attracted to chicks because i am... and i still do other things alone im just not into her i think ;(

it really sucks because we have a good relationship other than that but this is something that i feel is a major problem and i got no idea if there's a way to fix it

Have you told her that you don't like the way she 'grabs' at you?

What were things like back when you actually wanted to have sex with her? What changed? Is she much more confident now and it's a turnoff?