I'm in trouble...don't know what to do
Hi to all, I am new here.
I am in a bit of a pickle at the moment. Not sure if this is correct forum but will post it in others too.
Anyhow, I am a 30 y/o male, very lonely and shy.
I have been told by many woman i am 'gorgeous', 'cute', 'sexy', blah blah blah...I feel like vain even saying this. I notice that when I walk in public I see girls look at me quit a lot, sometimes staring etc Just this weekend I was walking in the city and a woman said 'hey gorgeous' out of her car window as she drove buy...she was probably drunk and obviously not the driver! Some woman touch me a lot after talking just once, some seem very nervous around me, even looking at me.
therefore, I do feel I have had many oppurtunities with woman.
Or could I be wrong about this?
When I see a woman looking at me, at shops, bus stops, nightclubs, what the heck should I do? I get extremely nervous, shy, my mind races. Then we I see her go away I think "You idiot, you could have approached her and maybe had a chance"
At the same time I think, "but it is possible she wasn't interested", which, ofcourse, is true.
And also then if I see a woman not looking at me I think "am I really attractive?"
is it weird if I go up and say 'hi, how are you'???
should I smile?
should I ask her number?
I am very upset and completely clueless.
I have had only 3 past girlfriends and I feel I may be wasting opportunities.
Please help me.
I'm sorry if I sounded vain.