Your perfect mate.

Hopefully there isn't already a post like this. I was trolling around some threads and noticed a common issue in some of them People don't know what they want in a mate. This is your opportunity to list the things you think are most important from a perfect mate and get feedback on it. Please keep it short and summarized.

I'll start:

1 - Above all else I want her to be intelligent. Dumb girls get boring REALLY fast.

2 - Exotic. Someone born outside of the U.S. with interesting stories and skills.

3 - Looks. Long dark hair, or even red. Doesn't have to be a runway model. I prefer meat on her bones.

4 - Playful / Adventurous. Sex in the rain that's all I have to say.

5 - Self sufficient. I don't want to support a house wife.

One that doesn't make me cringe

Here comes a ridiculously huge list. I had written it in my diary a couple of months ago. What is listed below would make my mr.perfect. I got though a nice idea from Gigabitch, and I will try to reduce the list as much as I can, cause that's just ridiculous.


...likes Beethoven
...likes listening to classical music
...is passionate
...is not a loser
...is tall
...is handsome
...is professional at his job
...is not boring
...doesn’t spend his weekends in front of the tv
...doesn’t spend his weekends playing online games
...doesn’t spend his time thinking about a boring family life - no kids
...has an opinion and isn’t afraid to express it
...likes solving problematic situations i.e. likes conflicts
...is intelligent
...is musical
...has a life
...doesn’t look at blondes like he’s never seen a blond before
...is not fat
...is not desperate
...is not a conservative thinker
...is not pathetic
...is hard-working
...is working hard for his dreams in life
...is not a vegetarian
...is not a heavy-metal personality with long hair, big belly, a beer in the hand and a drunk face
...is not a high-class-snobby personality
...is a musician and plays classical (that’s a bonus)
...is not an engineer/technician/mathematician/programmer (alike personalities collide with each other)
...is not a player

And yes, I'm a classical music nerd :-P

Pretty long list Melinda01. The longer the list the harder to find someone who will fit it will be. Plus there is only one of me :p

Someone who I find incredibly interesting and isn't stuck up. Someone who deviates from the rules of dating and love. I like someone who is different than the sheep so to speak.