Does anyone regret losing theirs/wish it had been with someone different/wish they had waited longer?
I've been with my boyfriend for 2-3 months (I'm 19 and hes 23) and hes never pressured me into it at all, hes never really even mentioned it, but I had a dream about it a few nights ago and since then I can focus on nothing else. I just wanna lose it with him lol. I trust him and hes lovely with me, hes really sweet and attentive and stuff, I know hes not in it for sex, and after that dream I cant focus on my schoolwork for thinking about it. It's my birthday in 3 weeks and hes told me about this wonderful present hes making me (i love homemade presents ) and he met my parents the other night (along with pretty much my entire extended family, so wasnt expecting that, but hes cool and hes not freaked out about it. I'm going to meet his family on saturday.)
I've asked my best friend what she reckons and she said its not a good idea. but I didnt say anything more than I wanna do it with him and i dunno whether its a good idea or not.
Maybe I'm just fishing for more positive comments to make me feel good about doing it lol. All I really want is to talk to him about it cos he will know what to do. But thats not really fair on him if I change my mind!
What would you do? What did you do?