Have any women ever known a bloke like this?

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10-08-09, 01:11 AM
sarah_rsl

Have any women ever known a bloke like this?

When I was in the army I shagged this guy in my battallion.

Anywho he was a pretty terriffic bloke and pretty shit hot in bed, he'd said at the beginning he wasn't looking for a relationship but after spending a bit of time with him I was starting to think it was my loss. So after a few nights we finished on pretty good terms.

The thing about the army was that everybody knew everybody elses businness even though I asked him to be discrete I fully expected everybody to know when we got back to camp.

But this guy was so secretive, and I wasn't telling anyone cause I'd broken my own rule about not shagging anyone on camp.

Anywho nearly a year later I'm drinking with a few mates, and one of them blurts out that she'd shagged him. Someone else had been making jokes about him being gay he didn't have a gf and nobody ever saw him with any women.

So then another one of my mates blurted out that she'd shagged him as well, and so on untill we realised that of the 8 of us there he'd shagged 5.

Everybody said the same thing it lasted a few nights he said he didn't want a relationship and he wanted to keep it a secret. In my case he hadn't really had to encourage me cause like I said I'd always said I wouldn't shag anybody on camp.

So at first we got pissed although as we thought about it he was a good guy. Probably the only one any of us had met in the army that could keep a secret from his mated about who they were shagging. Any other bloke would have boasted to eveyone he met about shagging another squaddie.

There was one slightly creepy aspect to it he was given to taking knickers as souvineers. When he whipped mine of me (I was in a really good mood) I kind of figured they might end up in a drawer with a load of other womens but I didn't realise how big the drawer would have to be and that they would be filled with my mates.

Anywho anybody else ever come across a guy like this. Secretive not given to boasting or kiss and tell. In all the blokes I've met I never even heard of anyone like him.
10-08-09, 05:12 AM
IndiReloaded

Hey, Gribble: Do you keep an underwear stash? ;)

Can't help Sarah, sorry. Your sexual exploits are the sort a girl like me only gets to read about, lol.

Aren't you worried you might have picked something up from this guy, tho? Clearly, he sleeps around.
10-08-09, 05:33 AM
sarah_rsl

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hey, Gribble: Do you keep an underwear stash? ;)

Can't help Sarah, sorry. Your sexual exploits are the sort a girl like me only gets to read about, lol.

Aren't you worried you might have picked something up from this guy, tho? Clearly, he sleeps around.

I didn't mean it to look like I'm venting episodes out my sex life for my own kicks. Although in truth there might be an element of that to it. Since I married I've been reflecting on my past experiences.

Anywho as for whether or not I picked up anything from him, when I was in the army I got checked out for STDs pretty regularly, as it was a medical appointement you even got time off work to go.

So no I didn't get anything from him. He was into non penetrive sex so I think he'd tailored his way of having sex to his lifestyle.

It's funny its only years later I'm thinking about this stuff.
10-08-09, 08:39 AM
IndiReloaded

Does your husband come online and read about this stuff to get off? LOL, that could be fun.
10-08-09, 05:21 PM
sarah_rsl

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Does your husband come online and read about this stuff to get off? LOL, that could be fun.

Hmmh I actually don't think getting off would be his first thought..
10-08-09, 05:42 PM
Yggdrasil

Yeah you have guys like that.

Well... it was good while it lasted right?

I understand you feel used because you were gall number 345677645453425342 in his long list of sex buddies, but try to keep things in perspective, you didn't know, he didn't spread the word around, your reputation is safe.

Leave what's in the past in the past. Even your husband has not really any reason to be upset or get huffy puffy about this, because it happend before you met him and got married. So.. you know... leave it where it belongs.. in the past.

You know, dead horses and stuff...
10-08-09, 05:50 PM
Cbrider

How do you shag and no have penetrative sex? I am missing something here or just have a different definition of shagging.
10-08-09, 07:47 PM
sarah_rsl

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Originally Posted by Cbrider [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How do you shag and no have penetrative sex? I am missing something here or just have a different definition of shagging.

No he was into that as well as normal shagging, after the first few times we shagged we kind of switched over.

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Originally Posted by Yggdrasil [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yeah you have guys like that.

Well... it was good while it lasted right?

I understand you feel used because you were gall number 345677645453425342 in his long list of sex buddies, but try to keep things in perspective, you didn't know, he didn't spread the word around, your reputation is safe.

Leave what's in the past in the past. Even your husband has not really any reason to be upset or get huffy puffy about this, because it happend before you met him and got married. So.. you know... leave it where it belongs.. in the past.

Also I'm curious as to whether there's a particular type of bloke that behaves like he did shagging as many women around him as possible while keeping off the radar. A lot of blokes will shag as many women as he can but for some recent he seemed to specialise shagging women he worked with...

You know, dead horses and stuff...

I should probably clarify I don't have any unresolved issues about the relationship, It's just years later I'm starrting to reconsider different aspects of it.

As for hubby being jealous or whatever, he doesn't really think like that, so it wouldn't really be an issue even if he did find out. It would just be slightly embarressing for me that's all.
10-08-09, 09:12 PM
Charlie Boy II

yeah guys pretty much find it impossible not to yell it from the roof tops when they get laid.

The guy's a calculating bastard, you have to give him credit.
16-08-09, 10:04 PM
Gribble

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hey, Gribble: Do you keep an underwear stash? ;)

Not intentionally, but stuff like that tends to collect in the nooks and crannies. I moved yesterday and found a sexy little nightie crumpled up behind my bed. For the life of me I can't remember to whom it belonged.
17-08-09, 08:57 AM
Mish

The guy would have to be secretive to get so many girls. I bet he wouldn't look as attractive if women in there knew he was a whore. Oh well, at least he was honest.
19-08-09, 04:40 AM
sarah_rsl

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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The guy would have to be secretive to get so many girls. I bet he wouldn't look as attractive if women in there knew he was a whore. Oh well, at least he was honest.

I think it was in his character to be kind of secretive anyway. I should probably reiterate that he was genuinely a good guy, he was one of those people that liked to get involved in charities, he'd actually spend a lot of his free time doing unpaid work for charities abroad.

but I'm not joking when I say a lot of people thought he was gay, it was quite weird when he came on to me, cause he was really sexually aggressive, and I'm sorry if I'm coming across as an easy shag when I say that we didn't even go out on a date.

The sex was brilliant though he was bit too dominant, and I really enjoyed myself with him for the few days that we were together and I was open to having a longer relationship.

But he never had a gf, when we had a function he'd always turn up alone (which I suppose made it easier for him to pull women)

I don't know though lots of guys are into shagging different women but why do you think he was so into shagging people he lived and worked with?
19-08-09, 10:15 AM
Mish

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Originally Posted by sarah_rsl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't know though lots of guys are into shagging different women but why do you think he was so into shagging people he lived and worked with?

They were probably easier to get than cold pickups.

Acting gay was probably so he could go under the radar. I have a friend like that, he acts gay so the girls put their guard down. And then he strikes when they least expect it. It's perfect.