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Just for the record, I'm usually a very shy guy. It's a wonder that I got a girlfriend in the first place.
Most of my male friends say i progress too slowly on my girlfriend. They say i lack guts.
And today i was not clinging so much to her as usual, and one of my male friends asked me if it was officially the end of our relationship. I never thought about it as ended. None of my female friends said anything about it...
But what if my girlfriend also thinks the same?
What should i do?
You should talk to her and tell her any rumors she may hear about the relation being over are just that: rumors.
Communication is 90% of the game.
^ agreed. talk to her and find out how she feels. If shes okay with the pace then dont listen to your friends that want to hear nasty details of weekends.
Seems like i lost the game... She told me today that it was "game over".
I feel kinda relieved, because I've been worried about this.
Any tips for my next partner?
Anyways thanks for your replies.
sorry to hear that :(
unfortunately relationships aren't just black and white, some people like clingy some people don't, some want to move fast and others want to take it slow. You will have to figure out what suits u and your partner (the next 1 that is).
But there could be such a thing as too slow, most ladies don't want to wait forever for something to happen.