what should i say to her?

So things have been wierd with the girl im talking to. I just dont know what she wants, and im not sure if she does either. Im not even sure what exactly happened but our relationship has changed a lot (going from seeing eachother 2-3 times a week, texting all day, talking on phone at night to just a few texts per day, havent seen her in 2 weeks and it was really starting to seem like she didnt want to see me, always says shes busy, very brief text messages).

At first i kept acting the same but it seemed pointless and after noticing that things really have been different ( i explained the whole situation in another post) i started to back off a little cause i figured she didnt share the same feelings for me as i did for her. But everyday she would still text me, just to say hi, leaving me confused. We were texting the other night and she told me how she was going to this get together type thing...and when i asked who with she replied with her ex boyfriend. This got me very annoyed and ill admit i responded to her rather bitterly, to which she responded confused. When i didnt text her back i got one a while after saying "you dont even talk to me anymore". As if she would have asked me if i talked to her that day. I felt like she texted me just to say she was going to be with him.

Ill admit i wasnt talking to her as much as i used to, but why would I? She had no desire to see me and barley wanted to talk to ME. I have been wanting to see her for the longest time, just to talk and straighten everything out, but now i feel its too late because she might have been with her ex this whole time. Shes making it seem like i did something wrong while shes the one who pushed me away.

I texted her today making sure she wasnt busy tomorrow so i asked if i could stop by for a little she said ok. Now I really wanna just find out what they hell has been going on. Any advice on how to start talking about it and what i should say? I really dont want to argue, just talk and hopefully work things out.

thanks

I read your earlier thread. You are wasting your time with this girl. It's pretty evident from her actions and attitude that she's reconnected with her ex and you are the odd-man-out. She either wants you as a friend or as a fallback ... not as her boyfriend. I'd call her on it if I were you.

Sorry.

Carl.