Originally Posted by banes
OK, so I have dated this girl named Kelly off and on for about 3 years. Now everytime it would get kind of serious I would back away (I know, very "guyish" of me). I just wasn't ready. Anyway, we still talk a bit and are both still single. We both know that we have never had this connection with anyone else and every relationship pales by comparison. She is hesitant to give me another chance for obvious reasons, but I will not give up.
Anyways, over the past year there have been about 10 different times when, without even talking to her, I felt that she was "down" or depressed, and it made me feel the same. SO sure enough, I would call or email her and my feelings turned out to be correct. To be quite honest, this kind of freaks me out. I have never been connected to someone like this. Does anyone think this is the "soulmate" phenonmenon I have heard about? I mean, is this "my chance?" It feels almost unreal sometimes.
Thanks for listening!!!