So my ex and I have been broken up for a little under a month. We were together for almost three years. We were supposed to move in together yesterday. He moved in without me.
We still love each other, etc. Basically the issue is that he thinks I have no motivation/ambition/independence. Which hey, fine whatever I guess.
So here's the thing: He still texts, messages and emails me. I never initiate the contact. When he broke up with me I basically told him to contact me only if he changed his mind.
We still love each other, and he still tells me this. He's asked me to go visit several times, etc. He still calls me muffin(my pet name) and babe and all that stupid girlfriend type stuff.
What does it mean? I'll get random texts from him every day about nothing. Like today he told me a story about having to go help a friend on the highway because his car overheated...then he texted me again to tell me his friend farted and it was lethal.
Why? What's the point? It's like he's making excuses to have contact. he said when I move back to town he wants to make me dinner.
I just don't know what to think anymore.:P