The devstating blindness of love

Recently I've lost the blindness for a persons faults that I had since I was in love with her for such a long time. It's so nice to finally see the person for who they really are but it really pisses me off that the things i over looked were things that were so blatantly obvious that i knew them but i never acknowledged them. It also makes me angry that these things are issues that if it was one of my friends i would smack them a few times and tell them to get a freaking grip on life. Destroying her life while also Fing up others lives. but futilely trying to help when even she didn't want to help herself. How could i be so blind.



Word of advice to people out there in love. Make sure you have somewhat of a clear head this is the kind of thing if you overlook in a relationship will make your life a living hell. This blindness will destroy you if you are blind to these kind of things.

Hindsight is 20/20. It's an old cliche, but it's been around awhile cuz it's true. Everyone's been there. The worst part is knowing you would've told a friend or someone close to you to get the **** out, but you couldn't do it for yourself.

Take it as a learning experience, so as not to do it next time, and don't beat up on yourself.

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Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Take it as a learning experience, so as not to do it next time, and don't beat up on yourself.

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I am and I won't. Just pissed at her for all the stupid things she does.