Sorry if my English is not so good.
I was seeing a guy for around 2 years.
Sometimes he tells me he loves me and many times he tells me I am his girlfriend. Sometimes he plans nice trips together. He even asks me if I love him.
He occasionally tries to make me jealous by remarking about other women: "she is too tall for me", or "we are outnumbered 4/1 by girls at work". It seems like he is trying to make me jealous but maybe he does have a roving eye. It annoys me, because it shows a high level of arrogance and immaturity.
But on the positive side, he often puts effort into things we do together when we go out.
I have been away recently and told him how difficult the long distance thing was becoming for me. He said:
"It's OK. I have no need to define it as a relationship. We are just two people that care about each other, are attracted to each other and want to make each other happy."
I told him that was disrespectful, and that if we are going to have sex we should be together, or not as just friends.
He said, OK let's be together then like we were yesterday.
And then later: I am glad we had this talk :). I missed you.
This is sooo confusing.
I don't want to bring it up again as it is likely to push him further away but I can't tell one way or the other if he loves me or not.
And if not, do you think I should cut it?
