My boyfriend still talks to his ex almost daily, he calls her and texts her, and still has her calling him "POPS" and I just found out that he is planning on taking her to lunch sometime soon. Although we have talked about her, and I am willing to be cool about the sisuation, because he says she has been his best friend for years, so I dont want to be this one who says "me or her" but if I am willing to be open about everything, why does he hid it all from me?? (BTW, I go through his phone and texts, thats how I know what is goin on, not that he has told me about any of this) So is he hidding it because there is more to their "friendship" than he wants me to know about? He tells me I am his fave and we are even looking into buying a place together (we are renting right now) I am confused weather I should be worried, cause his words tell me one thing, but his actions tell me another. And if I am to confront him, should I tell him I have been goin through his phone? and if I do that, then he will start erasing everything, leaving me completely clueless.
