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I have been going out with this guy for a couple months and things are going well, but their is this minor anoyance. He asks me to scratch his back all the time( whenever we are watching T.V.) He has even asked me to not cut my nails. I know guys like having there back scratched, but this guy wants this much more than normal. Can any of you girls relate?
This is hilarious to me. My mom scratched my back every night I was home until I was 18 and went away to school. I am almost 24 and everytime I go home and stay with my mom, I still get her to scratch my back every night. All my friends give me hell, but I don't care.
If you will do this for a man, he will do anything(or at least he should) in return. Only one girl has willingly done this for me(without me even asking, at that) and if she were here right now I would marry her(not just because of this). You are a saint..don't stop, just make sure you get something in return.
Yeah I used to love for my mom to brush my hair or braid it. It was relaxing.
My ex liked to get his back rubbed, head massaged, chest rubbed. Doing that for 5 years I've become a pro at massages. LOL
My husband gets his feet, legs and head rubbed almost every night. It makes him feel better and makes me happy that I get to do it for him. It can become very erotic :)
yeah, I say no. It's fun to treat him now and again, but I don't need another chore added to my list. I see 2 options: either tell him no, and buy him a back-scratcher, or make him give you a foot massage first. If he associates getting his back scratched with him having to actually put forth effort, I bet he will stop asking so much (and even if he didn't, at least you would get a foot massage).
I would willingly give foot massage for back massage in exchange
My fiance is like that, but he wants his back scratched when he's on the computer. I don't mind though because every time I do it, it gets him off the computer =)
My husband loves a good back scratch. He gives so much back most of the time I never resent giving him anything he wants. If your boyfriend gives back, why not?
So, does he?