As you may have read in another post, I am 31 and have never been in any type of relationship. Part of that may be because I'm too picky, but I have had high standards from the time I was a teen.
Here is what I am looking for in a girl. Does she exist?
1. I would like her to be around the same age as me, plus or minus 3-4 years.
2. Someone who is mature, down to earth, and is genuinly a nice person.
3. Someone who doesn't drink and party. Social drinking is one thing, but not getting drunk. A drunk girl is a huge turnoff to me. Nothing wrong with having a few drinks, but not getting wasted.
4. Someone who is not into the tat and piercing thing. both are instant turnoffs for me.
5. Someone who will be faithfull, dedicated, and loyal no matter what. Someone who will never cheat. I've seen it happen to people and how bad it hurts. I would never cheat, and would not want to be cheated on. If she wants to go out with her friends for a night out or something like that, I want to be comfortable letting her, and knowing without a doubt that she is not flirting with other guys or worse.
6. Someone who understands me. for who I am. Someone I can sit down and talk to, cry, and pour my heart out on who will truely understand me and my issues. (and i can do the same for her.) Someone who can feel comfortable coming to talk to me about any thing, any time.
7. As weird is this may sound, I hope whoever I meet is a virgin, as I am one myself. While it won't necesarily be a deal breaker if she is not, I have kept my virginity for my whole 31 years of life, (with pride at that), it sure would be nice if my first time was with someone who it's also their first time.
Am I really being too picky here? I'd love to hear what you think.