Why do women care so little about men, and coffee shop girl part 2 ?
Girls are blas'e about men especially if the girl is attractive this make it seem like a serious ordeal to try to get a girl to be your girlfriend if you are the average male.
Yet when I ask out a girl and she says yes she become important to me in a small way and I would not brush her off just because I felt bored, or for any other unimportant reason; such as, she did not make me feel like I was on the set of a movie.
Young women are mostly attractive unless through their own fault they are overweight, smelly, poorly dressed or apparently a complete no hoper who may or may not take drugs. These women are in the minority of women the majority of young girls are saught after.
Is it the sheer number of options that they have which make them treat men so poorly or is it some sort of other recent trend where girls have become mean. They are almost never nice unless they are paid to be nice. Ladies a bit of advice if you want a man to like you BE NICE TO HIM.
Men are taught from the youngest age that women are people too and that we need to treat them with respect. This is shown in the attitude of many young men where they will approach a girl with a long term view instead of just trying to get into her pants only to be rejected or treated like doormat.
I do not think that women are taught the same thing and this takes the whole dynamic out of balance.
I do not want to see women as pieces of meat even if that is truly all they are but women seem to want to be treated that way. I feel as though there can never be anything sentimental between a man and a woman until very late in a relationship and even then it is fleeting as she is likely to leave you and it becomes a forced domestic arrangement and not a relationship.
