Girlfriend wants sex but I don't

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21-10-09, 01:02 PM
cameron180

Girlfriend wants sex but I don't

So my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. She's recently been turning up the heat & putting pressure on me to have sex with her.

So far all we do is fool around with hand jobs and we've seen each other naked but have not gone all the way to intercourse.

How do I solve this incompatibility? I am not interested in taking the next step.

What if I purposely made myself unattractive to her? Would that solve the problem? I'm thinking of not shaving for a good 6 months & just doing things that will turn her off so that she won't desire me sexually.
21-10-09, 05:58 PM
wipe_out

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Originally Posted by cameron180 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. She's recently been turning up the heat & putting pressure on me to have sex with her.

So far all we do is fool around with hand jobs and we've seen each other naked but have not gone all the way to intercourse.

How do I solve this incompatibility? I am not interested in taking the next step.

What if I purposely made myself unattractive to her? Would that solve the problem? I'm thinking of not shaving for a good 6 months & just doing things that will turn her off so that she won't desire me sexually.

Chances are with this course of action you won't only not have sex but you won't have a girlfriend either..

Why don't you want to have sex?
21-10-09, 06:18 PM
CocoChanel

Sounds like a good idea.
Go for it.
Dumb arse.
21-10-09, 07:24 PM
Elizabeth

Why cant you tell her you dont want to have sex? Maybe she'll understand.
21-10-09, 08:18 PM
kai

Can we exchange places?
21-10-09, 08:40 PM
qwertz

yeh, why dont you want sex?
22-10-09, 12:42 AM
Gigabitch

Camspot, having sex is part of the deal in a relationship unless it's explicitly stated that it's NOT part of the deal. It looks to me like you advertised yourself as a boyfriend but you're something else entirely.

You should never have to hide who you are, and if she is asking you of all people for sex, she doesn't know you at all. That's YOUR bad, Kenneth.
22-10-09, 12:45 AM
girl68

Are you virgins?
22-10-09, 04:03 AM
qwertz

ok, now just read your other posts.

I think you should be single til you sort out what you want.

Its not nice stringing her along.
22-10-09, 06:59 PM
qwertz

think theres way more to it than that...you should check out his other posts
22-10-09, 10:55 PM
qwertz

hahahaha, i love your user name by the way!
23-10-09, 03:27 AM
lightwhite

0.o its usually the other way around isnt it???
23-10-09, 04:37 AM
loudrims_inc

omg, no sex?? Never heard of such a thing... :-P
24-10-09, 07:47 AM
qwertz

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Originally Posted by loudrims_inc [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

omg, no sex?? Never heard of such a thing... :-P

gives me cold sweats just at the thought of it!!