The Difference a Man can Make!

So I believe I have mentioned that my ex-boyfriend is an alcoholic and for a long time I tried to be friends with him. Well pre-Peter, if my ex was too drunk to drive it was common that I would give him a ride or at times he would appear on my door step and I would let him crash.

Well last night he called - he loves me and wants to marry me, will I come pick him up. NOPE. I turned off the ringer. He called EIGHT times. the messages went from loving to freakin mean!

All I could think was that Peter would be so hurt if this man was at my house, likewise if the situation was reversed I wouldn't want some skanky ex hanging out at his house.

Funny the difference that having Peter in my life makes, a few months ago I wouldn't have thought about it, but now I put my foot down. I'm kind of proud in a weird way. Just had to share.

Well, good for you! Now i wonder when i can post something like "the difference a girl can make" :D Not that i am messing around or anything now...

Sounds like you are happy and feeling good about yourself, JS. I'm happy for you too.

Freddie

Freddie thank you so much - you are so great at radiating positive energy! Sincerely, you are wonderful!

Jules

Jules you stood up for yourself girl! How awesome! I dont think it would matter if Peter were in the picture or not, you have had enough of that crap in your life.

This x~geesh hopefully he got the picture loud and clear youre DONE~

Hey, Squirrley..stop trying to out-positive me! Just kidding.

Thanks, JS..

I'm sincerely happy about your stand because I'm somewhat of a male feminist. You go, sister.. ha ha..

Freddie